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Apr 27 2008, 1:20 PM EDT | Post edited: Apr 27 2008, 1:20 PM EDT
how can a person know how you feel if you don't tell them... is it consider cheating if it is only written and not in person ?? 1  out of 1 found this valuable. Do you?    
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GrimReaper7752
GrimReaper7752
1. RE: trust
Apr 27 2008, 3:56 PM EDT | Post edited: Apr 27 2008, 3:56 PM EDT
You always let people know how you feel, holding in your feelings will only cause your soul to ache, Words are not the same as actions. 1  out of 1 found this valuable. Do you?    
trujat77
trujat77
2. RE: trust
Apr 28 2008, 1:32 AM EDT | Post edited: Apr 28 2008, 1:32 AM EDT
I agree with telling people although this action can sometimes fuse ill or uneasy feelings that are difficult to mend 1  out of 1 found this valuable. Do you?    
GrimReaper7752
GrimReaper7752
3. RE: trust
Apr 28 2008, 2:16 AM EDT | Post edited: Apr 28 2008, 2:16 AM EDT
tru, trujat I think you are right in this, but to hold them in and never tell, would almost be like torture, instead of a gunshot to the head. ( bad analogy :D) I think it will hurt them more to always wonder what if? Than the ill or uneasy feelings and if that person is truely their friend they will make sure they do not feel so uneasy about it. 1  out of 1 found this valuable. Do you?    
trujat77
trujat77
4. RE: trust
Apr 28 2008, 1:08 PM EDT | Post edited: Apr 28 2008, 1:08 PM EDT
so is it cheating once the words become a thought ? Where exactly is this line 1  out of 1 found this valuable. Do you?    
GrimReaper7752
GrimReaper7752
5. RE: trust
Apr 28 2008, 2:01 PM EDT | Post edited: Apr 28 2008, 2:01 PM EDT
No I dont, think it would be considered so. 2  out of 2 found this valuable. Do you?    
trujat77
trujat77
6. RE: trust
Apr 28 2008, 5:13 PM EDT | Post edited: Apr 28 2008, 5:13 PM EDT
"No I dont, think it would be considered so."
when does it become cheating or is it case by case
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GrimReaper7752
GrimReaper7752
7. RE: trust
Apr 28 2008, 6:14 PM EDT | Post edited: Apr 28 2008, 6:14 PM EDT
I would have to hear an example to use as a base. Do you find this valuable?    
trujat77
trujat77
8. RE: trust
Apr 28 2008, 9:14 PM EDT | Post edited: Apr 28 2008, 9:14 PM EDT
example No. 1 you have a pen pal or an old friend that the only time you see them is when they like you a stamp..and the conversation turns to sex and you find yourself writing smut..?
example No. 2 you have a secret admire and they call acting as a wrong number and again the conversation turns toward a topic that excites you so you allow the conversation to continue, when the call is over your gut almost aches in hopes that it is the wrong number again each time the phone rings.
example No. 3 you find a companion that totally make you tingle even with just a breath. ... are these enough for a base.?
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GrimReaper7752
GrimReaper7752
9. RE: trust
Apr 29 2008, 12:21 AM EDT | Post edited: Apr 29 2008, 12:21 AM EDT
1.borderline, and leaning towards yes.
2. same as 1.
3. no , that is lust. That will most likely lead to cheating.
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trujat77
trujat77
10. RE: trust
Apr 29 2008, 3:32 AM EDT | Post edited: Apr 29 2008, 3:32 AM EDT
most likely, you say most likely ? so what is a person to do with that tingle? you want to be honest with feelings, how are you to not make your soul ache.? 1  out of 1 found this valuable. Do you?    
GrimReaper7752
GrimReaper7752
11. RE: trust
Apr 29 2008, 4:25 AM EDT | Post edited: Apr 29 2008, 4:25 AM EDT
My great faceless friend, where is that wonderful photo you had up earlier, and you deep down know what you should do. The answer is inside you. you are asking because for some reason,or some person has made you doubt yourself. Now you must be yourself and stand as tall as you can knowing you are as good as anyone else and that only you can let them take your pride from you. 2  out of 2 found this valuable. Do you?    

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